THE DIVORCENEXUS COLLECTION
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Steady Through Separation
Read the relevant explanation first, then choose one exercise that helps with the issue in front of you.
01Choose one manageable next step
Use after reading Chapter 13 when several concerns compete for attention.
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Ask for missing information before answering. Use only the facts I supply. Distinguish those facts from assumptions, preserve uncertainty, and do not invent quotations, authorities, dates or commitments.
Help me organize these anonymized concerns into practical tasks, questions for a professional, and matters that can wait for a review date I choose. Ask me which deadlines have actually been confirmed. Do not infer legal deadlines or tell me to delay seeking urgent help. Suggest one small preparation task for today and explain what information it needs. Concerns: [insert].
Check the response
Check that a real deadline or safety concern has not been placed in the waiting category.
Take the next step
Choose one preparation task and confirm any uncertain deadline with the responsible professional.
02Rewrite a parenting message
Use after Chapter 5 when a practical message has become tangled with frustration.
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Ask for missing information before answering. Use only the facts I supply. Distinguish those facts from assumptions, preserve uncertainty, and do not invent quotations, authorities, dates or commitments.
Rewrite this anonymized message so it is brief, respectful and focused on the child’s practical needs. Preserve necessary facts and boundaries. Remove accusations and speculation about motives. Do not add commitments, agreement, admissions or facts. Ask about any ambiguity before rewriting. Give me one draft and a short explanation of the changes. Message: [insert].
Check the response
Compare the draft with your actual arrangements and intended meaning.
Take the next step
Decide whether a reply is needed before sending anything.
03Prepare for an appointment
Use after Chapter 10 to prepare for a short professional consultation.
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Ask for missing information before answering. Use only the facts I supply. Distinguish those facts from assumptions, preserve uncertainty, and do not invent quotations, authorities, dates or commitments.
Using only my anonymized notes, help me prepare a one-page consultation outline: the decision I need help with, a short chronology, information I have, information I am missing, and five questions. Ask who the appointment is with and what it is for. Do not answer the legal or financial questions yourself. Notes: [insert].
Check the response
Check the dates, figures and distinction between confirmed facts and assumptions.
Take the next step
Take the outline to the appointment and confirm who is responsible for follow-up.
04Make a short term money checklist
Use after Chapter 14 when you need a clearer picture of the coming month.
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Ask for missing information before answering. Use only the facts I supply. Distinguish those facts from assumptions, preserve uncertainty, and do not invent quotations, authorities, dates or commitments.
Turn these rounded, anonymized figures into a simple cash-flow worksheet showing expected receipts, expected payments and unknown amounts. Preserve dates and label estimates. Show your arithmetic so I can check it. Do not decide who legally owes a payment, calculate support or recommend moving money. Figures: [insert].
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Recalculate totals yourself and compare them with your records.
Take the next step
Identify one missing figure to obtain through an appropriate channel.
05Prepare for a resolution meeting
Use after Chapter 16 to identify what a meeting could realistically achieve.
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Ask for missing information before answering. Use only the facts I supply. Distinguish those facts from assumptions, preserve uncertainty, and do not invent quotations, authorities, dates or commitments.
Help me organize an agenda for a resolution meeting from these anonymized notes. Separate the issue, my concern, information needed, possible discussion options and questions for the facilitator. Treat every option as a proposal, not an agreement. Ask what process has been arranged. Do not decide what I should accept. Notes: [insert].
Check the response
Check whether the agenda fits the meeting’s purpose and your ability to participate safely.
Take the next step
Bring the agenda to the facilitator or adviser for review.
Prompt collection updated 27 September 2026. Book references identify manuscripts in development.